My husband and I do what I call bakery saturday.
The two of us get baked goods and do a formal meeting.
Now the meeting is like a weekly check in with each other. We each have financial goals we are trying to achieve for the month. We have weekly goals as well. Another thing is a list of things we need to do each week. My husband will have things like mow the lawn, clean out his shed or throw away some old clothing. I have things like schedule an eye appointment, call about new countertops for the kitchen and wash the floors. It is good to have a tracker sheet to keep us accountable and to talk to our partner about it. There is also a section of our meeting where we see how the other is feeling and ask what we can do to help them. It is really great for our relationship. My husband runs the meeting and does all the data. I buy baked goods. There is a marijuana dispensary near me that has an on site bakery. We used to just get stuff from the grocery store. The dispensary edibles are so much better. They are fresh and can be quite potent weed wise. I go for the lowest amount of cannabis in the product as possible. I don’t want us high on a saturday morning and doing a meeting. I rotate between buying cookies, bread, caramel bars, peanut butter squares and brownies. They are all delicious and a big hit with my husband.